It's not our circumstances it's us that's the problem
- Julia Erman
- Jun 5, 2022
- 1 min read
This is a gift.
But two years ago, I would have disagreed. I would have said this was a nightmare.

I'm more convinced than ever that more than your circumstances, your perspective decides your reality.
2 years ago, I saw a special needs child as a nightmare, and many agreed with me. But what I realized was I was coloring that picture. I was deciding how it felt every day.
Today I look, and I speak blessing over the same circumstances. Today I chose to see the parts that are joyful and good. I thank God every morning for the million ways he has used these kids to bless us.
Keynote: the actual circumstances are the same.
What changed: I changed; I practiced switching my mindset to a place of gratitude. That's what changed.
I believe you can do this too. To learn how reach out. I'd love to teach you.

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